karen, even when the ink is dry on the D papers doesn't mean the end either. A friend told me her H did the same -- OW, wanted D, filed -- divorce goes through and 1 year later H has change of heart and they remarried and happily married 12 years later. Not for everyone but you never know.
I think we are all guilty of still trying to focus on our H at times. We have to continue to work on ourselves and keep our own sanity. PM has done a remarkable job no matter what she decides. She is already a winner!
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
