Oh, absolutely! I spent a wonderful day on Bondi Beach reading the second Bridget Jones novel and watching the lifeguards. Mmm. Of course there are female lifeguards for Silva to watch.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
{{{Silva}}}} how cool is that..so are you guys going and when?? That is very cool, as Australia has been on my list of places to go since I was I dunno even know how old!
Kass..love those explanations
Pearl..I am with you on finding Jean Luc..oh captain my captain LOL
Tawnya
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Silva..LOLOL..I know I know..I want to go badly to Australia, stowing away would totally be a 180..I say..let's go
By the way..had to post on here: You know where my hub was asking where I was going..ok..so the next day he went to where my daughter works, was asking about her trip and just HAPPENED to ask her "so your mom is going somewhere too yeah"..LOL..but she didn't tell him Tho, I did tell my son, so I'm sure my husband's curiosity has been sated by now..sigh..
THEN yesterday when I got here I got a text from him about something totally random, about one of the cable boxes that I still had that was actually his..I was like seriously..this is what I am getting texted about? So..later I responded so he could get the box when he picked up son last night. Then he tried to CALL Me..WTH???? Anyway..didn't answer, but I have a feeling he saw on my text that I'm in another time zone..cause it shows as like 5:00 sent received at 6:00 cause where Amy is in FL is an hour behind our time..so strange..Amy said she had the same thing when her hub first moved out..not that he wanted any of us back, but somehow felt he still wanted control?! I dunno..but whatever LOLOL..
Tawnya
Me:39 H:40 D18/S12 M20/T21 Bomb 10/11/08 One Two Three Four
Welcome back JD...forget going back to day one. You have had a lot of 'stuff' to deal with and as co-founder, you can give yourself a dispensation
I have DB'd my little socks of over the last 3 months and going dark has been the single biggest thing in helping me. It hasn't got my W back, but I am happier now than I have been for the last 4 years (maybe longer if I am honest). I have rediscovered my own self, my fun side, the original me. He got lost somewhere down the line, but with the help of all you on here and the principles of DB, he is back, with avengeance
So thanks guys and gals, you are inspirational!
BTW, there's still free internet dance classes being organised on my thread
Silva..you are right..dark has helped get past the "waiting and wondering" phase..and helped ME find me..tho I haven't done it anywhere near as long as most of you guys
I do have to say I ALMOST texted my hub yesterday..but I didn't. To make a long story short, walking along the beach yesterday really just hit me really sadly. When my hub and I met, I lived at the beach, first "date" hub and I had we just sat on the beach and talked for hours..lots of times when hub came to visit me from Camp Lejeune we spent at the beach..so it was just a hard day for me and it totally caught me off guard! But, thankfully, I had left my phone in the car..LOL..so I didn't!
If I HAD texted him tho, it wouldn't have been all stupid, what I would have said was this: "Hub, are you 100% sure that we are really done? The reason I ask is that I am gonna leave you on this beach..let you go absolutely..but I don't want to do that and in a month you come back and tell me you've made a mistake". Again, I didn't..but I just didn't want you to think it would have been all gooey and stupid LOL
Tawnya
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Well, I guess you know I did simply RESPOND as per the rules, and W was being super friendly. I did text a couple of times asking for her recipe for meatloaf, and iced tea.
Even so, I'd like to start over, because the first time I started I didn't really want to, hated the idea. Now, I'm looking forward to it!
