Oh sweety, I know how difficult this must be for you !!! You have been a fantastic father and you have done so well in your inner soul search !!
I am sure that this time you will do what is right again...
What I do think, is that she unveiled a bit of the pain by telling you how she felt that you always were condascending towards her. I'm not saying your were, but it is how she sees it...time to validate and listen, I think.
Oh sweety, you have my prayers and I hope your kids remain in one house, yours for now. I can imagine how hard it would be on the boys...
Take care big bro, listen to God, and pray !
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus