Just got back from first IC session. The guy was great! I sat there and told him the whole story back from when we first got together until now, deal with her enmeshed family, deal with OM, my detachment and anger that led her to OM, ect. After everything, he used a white board and drew two stick people with an arrow from me to W. Then drew a wall and said that I need to move that arrow in the opposite direction. Totally drop the rope and move on with my life, continue to improve my life and show her what she is going to be missing. Its like he was on this site. I told him that I joined this group and that is exactly the principles I am learning here and he said that is great that I have a support group to help me through this. Also said that he had never been here or read the book.
He also recommended that I get on some AD so I just got that called in and will start in the morning. Anyone know anything about Paxil?
Also, W just sent me a text saying that she hopes my day is going well.
Well, I didn't send this, but my day is going very well!!!!
