Mishka, if I may join in...you are not a failure, but I do understand how you would think you were...but believe me, you are NOT ! We all have te capacity to make choices in life, and we all make our OWN choices...our spouses decided to leave, that was THEIR choice, ours is to choose what we do with that !!!
Take care sweety !
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
