If you suddenly had the sex life you've always wanted, how would you behave?
What would you do differently?
What kinds of different thoughts would you have?
How would it affect your life?
How would your life be different than it is right now?
What relationships other than with your partner would be affected and how? (IE: would your friendships be different? Your relationship with your children, co-workers, anyone?)
Do you think you would have less stress, depression, fear, any other emotions or feelings? Or more of any other emotions or feelings?
Would you tell others how great it was, if you had the best sex of your life whenever you wanted it, or would you keep it as a guarded secret?
Would you love your partner more? Or do you think that the love part would be the same?
Would you be willing to give other things up in order to have your fantasy sex life? In other words, do you secretly feel you have to barter with the universe and give back something else before you can receive something new?
In order to have your fantasy sex life, would you need to change your body in anyway? IE: In your fantasy sex life, do you look different than you do now? Are those differences something you could really change, or are they truly fantasy differences?
Do you think your other ideas about the world would be different if you were having your fantasy sex life?
And I guess the most important question, what do you think has to happen in order for you to get from here to your fantasy sex life? (IE: your partner has to change, or you have to change, or the baby has to go to college, or you need a labotomy, etc).
Add more questions if you want....or just answer some or one question....or all of them....or just discuss.
