Well, my W was very good at hiding her A for at least 2 months. She had a disposable phone and when she went out with her girlfriends, she would ditch them to meet with OM. When someone is having an A (not that your W is) but they are very good at being secretive and lying. Follow the DR book and the coaches advise.
Me-44 WAW-42 (ILYBNILWY) S-16 S-14 M-10/17/1992 T23 Met OM 10/10/08; Bomb 12/27/08; Moved in with OM 01/27/09 Me stronger and happier everyday!