Good question Karen, it actually made me think... so my GALS:

1. I travel for work here and there, so that's nice when that happens. I was in Wash DC earlier this week.
2. I get busy with our investment property... we rent out the place for parties as well. But that's with H and that is one of the main reason we still contact.
3. I exercise at work like 3x per week - gets me home about 8/9pm.

Not much else after that. I feel like I've been pretty busy visiting family and going with my sisters now and then. But now that I've done this list I think I need to add some more GALs in my life. I usually get home about 8/9pm. I was thinking of volunteering someplace or taking a class. I think I will look into that.

H and OW have been together now on and off for over 5 years. I think that it has gone on so long b/c H has always had me to provide for him and to give him the stability he needs. I know in my heart he needs to just be with OW without me in the picture for this to all blow up but I can't help but feel like maybe it won't. A big part of H's fascination is with his son (he loves kids) and I do get scared that what if they have another child. But I guess I have no control over that do I.

Thanks.