It is really strange that now after being divorce for 7 months, I am telling everyone. Before I just talked about it here and didn't really let it out any where else. I thought I am doing so good. Then at the parent teacher conferences, I wanted the teachers to know what has been going on and out it all spilled. Tactfully but spilled non the less. Wow!!

Vicky, I think you need to stop thinking about your H and OW. It will only make you sad. Think about you and what improvements you want to make for you. Then get going. It won't happen overnight, but you will start to feel the difference. I bet your H will even notice that you have taken the spotlight off of him, though that isn't why you would be doing it.

hugs

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory