In desperate need of advice, separation looming!

[2gthrButApart]

I have also stopped saying I love you to her, but the times that I have said it to her since she told me she wants the separation she said she loves me also what does that mean

She does love you but is hurting and confused. You're her H, the father to her sons, she can't Not love you. But she's not in love with you at this moment, the pain she feels, the sadness, the confusion, all of it clouds her judgement.

So she does Love you, but maybe you should stop telling her you love her for a lil' while, b/c it hurts you and confuses you when she "says" it back, but her actions say otherwise.