We have similar situations, but I'm living in our finished basement. I've been here about 6 weeks now. I had a nice talk with the W last night for the first time in a few weeks about what's going on between us and our Ds. Lesson 1 is to take care of yourself, physically, emotionally. It's very difficult to get into a new routine, but it's what you need to do to effect change. Also remember, that you've come to a great place for support.
