Yeah, I love my therapist. She's probably the reason some people are still walking around!!
No matter how dark it gets, hang on. Don't believe anything they say and 50% of what they do.
She's not worried about you staying in a house you once lived in. She wanted to let you know "I'm going to be out late..." and wanted to gauge your reaction. You didn't take the bait, hence the "I can do what I want!" comment. My three year old has mastered that phrase too. Not that I want to beat up on your spouse here but seriously....I think you handled that like a DBing Champ!