My H NEVER sees the FML attitute, doesn't hear it in my voice, etc...
I understand why you think this....If you are on here posting FML..then I guarentee he can detect it..I know this from personal experience and from hanging here on this board for over a year. The only time it can't be detected is if you truly don't think FML or you're an Oscar winning actress .
See thing is..A WAS can detect it..you really want to mind F**K a walk away..then you become the happiest person on the planet..you get a life beyond belief, you detach...then see what happens...I bet he gets closer to you...I bet good things will happen..
of course all that goes against our "human" nature...we are a pleady, bitchy, whiney..bunch..If you were like that when you and your husband first met, would he have asked for you to marry him?? Nah...probably not...ya have to get back to what you were before "Married Life" F**ked it all up.
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I'm simply tired of living without being desired. I'm simply tired of living together "for the kids," which is not what he has said, but is, basically, doing... even though it's confusing because he still wants to do some stuff "together." I'm simply tired of tears coming every day.
then GAL..you GAL..GAL like a Mo' Fo' then you ain't got time to cry..also...if you exercise as part of GAL..I can Guarentee that that trip you made to Victoria Secrets a while back..will not go unnoticed
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