Your story is always inspiring. I remember when we were two newbies haunted by the memories of our husbands affairs and commiserated on these boards.
I just saw an article in my alumni journal from U. of Pa. that says that new studies have shown that cognitive therapy has been shown to be just as effective as antidepressants for treating depression and more effective at treating relapses after treatment. Actually this was published in the Archives of General Psychology in 2005; so it's not very new research.
