..And that is EXACTLY how I took it. Please continue to do so. This is a great place to complain although you're welcome to complain directly as well. I'm a good ear. I like to hear you talk even if you sometimes don't feel like posting. Which I also feel like I understand - it can be painful to relive that via telling about it.
If you can, please do continue to post and complain and laugh. I'll be looking forward to it. I won't be around as much for a while, but I'll check in on you anyway. I am still rooting for you. I know you're making great progress both personally and in your marriage even if it doesn't always feel like it's enough or that it is fast enough. I can tell from your posts that you're progressing and I think you should stay the course for a while and consider IC for your self - just for the peace of mind.
Take care, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
