She's very concerned with the post divorce financial situation because she's used to having more money with two incomes and no daycare costs. She's also showing her concern to get you to NOT DARE to ask for spousal support.
It's her decision to break up the family. She needs to live with ALL of the consequences.
It's not your job to make it easy on her, to help her continue her lifestyle. (She SHOULD feel the change in lifestyle as part of her REAL journey.) It's not your job to make it easy on anyone, but just protect the kids as much as possible.
