Puppy, I go 180 degrees now. Here is what I wish your advise for. I can ether (i) disapear, so my wife sees me only when I pick up or bring back my daughter or (ii) disappear but first talk to her try to make arrangements, explain that I still in love with her and the reason that I disappear is to let her try whether she can live without me. I do not think that I can ask her quit dating for a while but I probably can say that it hurts me and may damage her What do u think?