I just realized that when I say things like MAN, you may take that as a bash on you. I honestly am not trying to bash you. I think that you would benefit greatly by reading No More Mr. Nice Guy. You are a man, indeed. She needs to see a different man in you in order to choose YOU. He's in there, you just need the tools to understand where I'm coming from. Please, I'm begging you, read No More Mr Nice Guy (NMMNG).