in W's Divorce Fantasy World where we're great pals and great parents and great friends and have great and enriching lives --
Ha! this seems to be a common fantasy world. My W also sometimes seemed to think / believe that we could get divorced and still live happily ever after as a family.
but Remember (something I have trouble remembering) any time you start an R discussion (of any kind, even this one) you are chasing her out the door.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.