trapt...got it. Overall, I think you are doing great. It takes awhile to 'get it' and you have. Men here fear standing their ground...saying no....and run from standing up to their WAW's out of fear of scaring them off. While they think they are 'DB'ing'...they are actually showing 'wuss' behavior. Women sniff it out. They know that you can't stand 'for them' if you can't stand 'up to them'.

Stay strong. You will do fine WHATEVER happens.

Strength and honor.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;