You know Silver, it really doesn't surprise me at all that you weren't checked on. I may have a different outlook to others on here, but when someone is so 'gone' from a relationship whether previously married or not, they just don't give up a single brain cell for their former partners.
I guess it's because 110% of those (admittedly few) brain cells they still have are FAR too busy being concerned about them and how THEY are going to manage.