Actually doc she know just about Everything that has gone on between H and I. That is why I am so suprised that she is taking this so lightly. She has been there for me when I left him and went to a hotel, kids and all, S3 was only 6 mos old at the time. She was willing to come and stay with me. She really is my best friend. Shes known me since 4th grade.
I did tell her how I felt in a non-judment sort of way. she just seems to "happy" about this, I think she may be in denial of what this is really going to do to her children's life and hers for that matter.
I will ask her those questions, all I can do is be there. Not to judge, but not to agree with her either, because I don't. Until she has tried to work things out at least once, I will never agree to what she is doing.
She takes things I say to her pretty well, I guess because she knows that im a no - nonsense person.
I just hope and pray she makes the right decision. So many marriages are just given up on, and people think it should be fairy tale lane forever, that's just not real life. M is hard work, and I think if you are willing to say I do, you need to put the effort in especially when you have young children.
thanks doc.
T
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
