I'm not 'going' through changes though, but AM having fun.
You see, I HAVE changed, I am happier, feel as good as I did in my 20s but with 50 yrs experience. Not many can say that!!
I can understand you not wanting hard anymore Kass. As I said, step off the pedestal and stop giving yourself such a hard time. That I am afraid is all your fault. Kick off your shoes, put your feet up and just watch the world go by for a while.