I have heard of this happening where the daughter takes the wife role ( of course not all aspects) but I wonder on this one. Also I knwo alot of times Moms and daughters have issues through the teenage years. I would think about getting some good counseling on how to handle this as this could be somethiing depending on how its handled could cause alot of grief as you reconile and the as we all know here our kids have been through so much. You dont want to be in competetion with you daughter. I say this as a daughter who was very close to her dad growing up. My parents did not seperate or divorce and I remember my mom being jealous of my relationship with my Father ( her husband) through some of my teenage years...your post just raised a flag in my mind. best wishes to you you have really hung in there. Exciting to read of the progress
