Holy Cow, Thinker -- that hits home. Maybe I'm on the accelerated plan, or something. Read your first post. Um, hello - my story much?
I realized last night that I'm in full-bore pursuit mode. Had an R talk on the phone and came down with acute verbal diarrhea.
Gotta stop.
It's weird though because I GAL'd a bit yesterday and had lunch with a friend I hadn't seen in a while. He's a very religious person (I'm not -- opposites attract, what do you know?) and noticed immediately that I'm not wearing my wedding ring. (She took hers off and I thought well I'll show her!)
I talked to him about my intent to fight for the marriage so that, at the end of the road, no matter what that end is, I can look myself in the mirror and know that I left it all on the field come what may.
But now looking at your post, I having a tough time figuring out where the line is -- how can fight for my marriage AND be detached?
I'm just going to keep following your posts. They're good ones, even if confounding at times.
