My first step out of Newcomers

[PositivelyMommy]

I am so sorry Weeman is having a rough time. But let's just give W the benefit of the doubt. You don't know exactly why Weeman was unsettled, it could have been anything. But I totally understand how your first thought is 'How could she do this to us?' That is my first thought too, in the beginning, when I got annoyed, especially on behalf of the kids. It takes time to work that out of your system. And I hope you do because it's no way to live to think like that, blaming her for the rest of your life. Especially if your goal is reconciliation. Don't sabotage yourself now with negative thoughts of her. Try to be as understanding and compassionate as you can. I know it's very very difficult in regards to the kids. But really Weeman may be unsettled for a number of reasons. I know I am not much help here. Sorry. I really hope you all can be a family again. I really do.