Decided to check out your thread after reading a lot of your posts on Tawnya's and JD's threads.
Mostly, I have to side with what PDT, Gucci and JD are saying. You are in a position of power now. So now is your chance to make clear to your xBF what you want/need out of a R for it to work for YOU. xBF has left the door open for you to respond and set your demands. And there's no real hurry. I don't think you want to wait a few weeks before responding, but you can think about this for a few days in my opinion.