PM, no matter what we will be better people even if our H's never come to that realization. What a shame what they will miss -- the new improved us. We can only pray for this.

I have been doing personal inventory everyday and trying to make small changes a day at a time.

I read on another site that we need to make these improvements to be ready for when our H's decide to find their way back. They said if your doorbell rang right now and it was your H -- would YOU be ready. Would you be in the right frame of mind to accept your H and all that goes with it. Gives you something to think about.

I know that I need to work on some projects in the house, actually have a long list. Need to keep focused on the long term goal.

take care

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09