Slowly but surely - detach and 180

[hopefulinEG]

I also talked to my sister tonight. She talked to a mutual friend of her and my W and the friend apparently told her a bunch of stuff that W had told her. Why W would tell her anything I don't know because she is such a big gossip. The friend could hardly wait to tell my sister.

So my sister couldn't tell me a lot because her daughter was being needy. The friend had told her that W was not in any way considering reconciling and didn't want to talk about that. The friend had also told W to move out and stop mooching off me and causing me and the kids so much pain. If she wanted out then get the H$ll out and face the music.

Sister said there was a lot more and even some about the OW but will talk to me later.

What ever I hear tomorrow I have to take with a big grain of salt because the friend does tend to exaggerate and who knows if W even really told the friend the truth. but it will be interesting to hear.