hey, that was me. oops, I'm the culprit. Sometimes there is so much commotion around us that we cannot hear God, so we must be still.
The only reason why I am not so for the door changes is the fact that he is still calling everyday and has the desire to go to church together. If it wasn't for that, I probably would not be having questions.
My thoughts are to talk (if it were me I would write it) to H about his will to not live there, and because his choice right now is not to work on the M, you feel that it may be best to file for LS and that you would like for him to respect your home and to let you know or ask when he wants to come over. You would love to work on the M, but you know he's not ready for that, so if he changes his mind, then you would be happy to rethink things again.
I understand your concern for rocking the boat Baby. I would be thinking the same thing if I were in your position. and I know you've got some strong decisions to make, they are not easy, but we will support them either way.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
