I recommend the book "Just Friends" by Glass: it might give you some perspective on what your W is going through. Also the advice to stand up to her on the moving out issue is solid. You said it yourself that you have no where to else to go. Does your W have family or other support nearby that she can stay with?
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09