Kissak, It seems to me that you're already being courageous by not reacting to fear, and impulsively letting him back. You're hanging in there with your fear, and that's not easy to do.
Try to think this out and not let fear make the decision for you. How is letting him back before he's ready to work, going to make it less likely that the R will end? Somehow you think there is greater security if he's in your presence.
What action on your part will increase the likelihood of the R working-out in the long run?
What will help you to stay with the fear, even longer without reacting?
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
