I just read this part, I hear a lot of similarities to my stitch... think we may be close in the race for complicated. Having said that, I just wanted to say "hi" you are obviously not alone, and unfortunately in a very special club. LOL (I'm in a good mood tonight) It's tough, I did give my H the choice to stop or leave and he left - things continued the same until I stopped contact the first in Jan. He is now 37 days sober, in IC for the same amount of time. Still self centered but starting to see more clearly. If that helps. I see you have a lot of support. Need more, I'm here too.
