You hit the nail on the head, about the detaching looking back I see how it all unfolded. I am now just focusing on details of her moving out. I told her lets just focus on separating things and not do any further damage. She is hopefully moving in with her mom and dad. Her father doesn't want her there but will make the only rule that she has to go to counseling if she lives there.
At this point I need peace and she doesn't get it, maybe down the road when reality hits things will change but for now I need to worry about me.
ME 44 W 32 M 5 T 6
no kids
June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
