I'm sorry Pearl. I understand. I don't have kids either - 2 dogs who've been my life savers since the bomb. They've been healthy so far but there are other issues with the house, especially after the recent snow. I need H here too - sharing the burden - and I'm heartsick over his callous disregard.

You'll get through it. You don't need xBF to tell you you're doing the best you can. YOU tell yourself that - we'll tell you too.


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10