I think the rule is that the LBS must not initiate contact. So answering his letter Pearl will not set you back. If you feel it's rude not to answer, that's your heart talking to you. Do what's in your heart.


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10