DQ and Ali some of what both of you are saying is right.

I have NOT given Mrs. Cinco a dead-line of if we don't have x passion and y desire and z affection by such and such date I'm leaving. And what DQ is referring to is the letter that I drafted a while back and have never given to her. It was an ultimatum and I felt like it was my last resort.

Yes, May will have been a year but it is only *my* dead-line and I have seen some effort on her part over the year. To be fair I would have to give her the letter with a year from the date of giving it to her.

Much of what Ali says about the pressure that Mrs. Cinco feels from me is true. She has said to give her time she can't light her flame again overnight. She even said yesterday, "Nothing I do is ever good enough for you. No matter what I do it will never be good enough." I did tell her that it is so much better now. I want this with you W.

OK and I'm with Lucky. How does this handstand 69 thing work? Can you draw a diagram with stick figures using text or something?

Cinco