The whole possibility of divorce strikes a nerve with me, which is why I am advocating that Cinco lay his cards on the table directly with Mrs. Cinco....I don't want to see him and her end up divorced just because there was not clear enough communication for them to both know what is in each other's hearts.
Cinco at one time had a letter prepared to give her and this letter is what I keep referring to, because I know he hasn't given it to her yet.
But Ali...my feelings are hurt, too. I did not directly insult you by making it seem like you have no brain at all? I am sorry my post hurt your feelings but I still don't know why it did. I am also sorry if it sounded condescending, I do not have any thoughts of that nature in my head at all. I just love Cinco and want him to talk to his wife...and by "talking" to her I do not mean for him to "toss the LD person to the side" or anything of that sort at all.
I also love you and respect your journey....but my post and my view aren't valid, too? My journey through divorce can't help someone else try to avoid it, too?
I'm so confused, but I am hanging in there....
DQ
I exactly respect you too. I think you can post your thoughts all you want. I hate DIVORCE TOO~ If you remember I am re married. I dunno why it hurt me so much either DQ? It just did? I know you did not mean it like that. I really do. I am sorry if I hurt your feelings. I know you have been thru a lot too. Sorry if I offended. I am sorry. Love, Ali
