I dont know...its never so black and white, just musing here. Especially when you're flawed and scared of rejection (H). I think its complex. Plus sometimes, doing exeternal things (like D, or finding someone new) wont necessarily salve your hurt/upset/frustration. It does work sometimes, as a coping mechanism, but not always..our ex's are testamant to that.. are they happy? S, D, ow.. didnt work for them!
Hey M.. here are our stars...oh dear god, when will it ever end, haha! (no, not funny!)
PISCES - 9-16 March
As relationships deepen, they are not romantic. When dealing with another person, the garbage you end up having to put up with was really always visible right from the beginning, but of course nobody wants to see it. Whether you-know-who is sick, crazy or just not there is really not the point. You need strategy, tactics, patience and guts to know when to hang in there and when to get the hell out.
..they all say the same all the time lately.. hang in there or get out..OK, WHICH ONE? GODDAMIT!