Hey, wait a minute. What about the Circe de Soleil thing? [Still over here standing on my head, baffled.]
I'm just kidding, Ali, of course! We need some laughter on this thread.
I was going to say to DQ that I think her advice must have hit a raw LD nerve with Ali, but I wanted to wait for Ali to speak for herself. Like I wrote to Jayce last night, one can never fully know what it's like to be in another's shoes. Sometimes a nerve is hit soooo unintentionally.
We all want each other to succeed and be happy. Our intentions are to help each other, and we all know that. And, because this is so important to us, our reactions to feeling hurt are intense.