This is my first post in this section as I find myself in the due process of the "Bid D" with my WAW. I'll try and start my own thread tomorrow, but your title caught my attention.
Hang in there. I allowed my STBX take my 2 boys 10 & 12 for the weekend since she hadn't seen them for a few weeks pending a order of protection against her. That hearing was when I learned she filed for D as I was served at the stand, how embaressing. That was exactly one month ago to the day. I have not seen my boys, only talked with them 2 times on the phone for all of 5 minutes, don't know where they are and know now that they are probably having their heads pumped full of her jargan and like you, I now work to pay my attorney and nothing more.
Didn't even get to see my S12 on his birthday.
So, it CAN BE worse. use and cherish what you have.
dday
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
