The Bachelor saga continues, he can't understand why people are so upset with him. ARE YOU KIDDING?? Whatever. There's too much real life to think about to use up more brain cells on that individual.

PS, I can't totally agree with you that your focus needs to be on the other person and making them happy. In all honesty, I think that's what ended me up in this sitch I am in. I lost myself while I had my focus on someone else and their happiness.

My mom is struggling right now with her H and looking for a place to vent. Emails are burning! I told her I was reading a book Stop Blaming Start Loving in my 'spare' time and suggested it for her. Mom told me to stop reading self help books and just get out my bible and said Jesus loves us. Her whole response brought tears to my eyes.

Me and H? good stuff, bad stuff, trying not to get sucked down but I do. Maybe I haven't learned anything yet.
Eyes on the horizon, bubble in the middle.


Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.