If you love her do this with boundaries with her. If you love her fight for her in a way that can break through her fog.
Giving her all the convienences of a marriage without any boundaries isn't working. As as prior Marine officer, I can tell you that you have a footprint on your forehead.
We say these things to help you have the best chance of regaining her love not to make you feel worse. Believe it or not everyone here wants nothing more for you to succeed.
What will it hurt to take their advice after 2.5 years of no progress?
Think about it. We are on your side.
V
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch
