You see Vicky I just wanted her to know that she has a home. We are originally Ukrainians, came here 8 years ago, worked in university, we are both PhDs, but not on permanent jobs, so we could not have a house. These days purchase of a house is a crazy idea, but I was doing this for her, not for myself, I dont care where to live. What you are saying makes perfect sense, but my feelings are still very strong, so I do not know what I will do yet.