Her family knows everything. They can't understand why she is doing this and have told her she is making a mistake. I don't know for sure if the affair is still going. I suspect that it is.
When this first happened I had the initial reaction of begging and pleading. I was fortunate enough to find this site and ones like it to realize that is the absolute wrong thing to do. I make a conscious effort to not contact her and put the onus on her to open communication. Not easy and sometimes do make the mistake of contacting her but those instances don't happen much anymore. I notice her calling me for stupid stuff - chit chat etc. I keep it to a minimum.
