Just didn't want you thinking Mike was being a jerk or flippant - it was me !
I don't post a lot but I read here pretty regular and have been following you and all the others posting in this section. I'm rooting for you. Try to get some rest. Tell your H to take care of a couple nights in a row. Don't let him whine about he has to work and all. I worked and did it every single night for months - my then wife went kookoo and disapeared 5 days after my daughter was born and has never taken care of the kids since. Ugly story. NMMNG for you ! tell him to suck it up and deal with it for a couple days.