No we are not ML. I have no idea if she has any interest and I could care less right now. Things need to improve greatly before that would happen. When I say initiate contact that is what I want from her as far as affection goes.
She only comes to the house if invited.
Oh I'm definitely co-dependent. That's why I'm here to get advice on how to break this dependency.
At this point I'm living my life as if I'm a single father of 3. I've started doing things that I enjoy again like playing guitar. I began working out to relieve stress and because I wanted to improve my health.