the pants traveled #17

[Babygirl]

Jeff, dont have your email lol!
jeff and davids wife, yes, the locks should be easy, why does it feel like i am slamming the door? EMOTIONALLY this week with my heart i can not deal with the legal seperation if that makes sense, it feels like i am handing him a huge bday cake that i dont wanna give him.

[Virtually_Handsome]

I thought you did! I'll fix that!

Don't give the LS to him, give it to you! It's a present you need.

[Virtually_Handsome]

You've got a FB message.

[Babygirl]

hey i emailed you jeff. i think i am so confused, thats why which ever of my sisters i mentioned above, told me to be still, i am. H calls this his house, still calls me his W at work, still calls me every break as our normal routine is, and has made sure we all went to church. TOGether! he has also on the flip side spent a hella lot of time over there with ow and S.
i cant handle anymore emotional anything this week.

[Virtually_Handsome]

(((((BG)))))

I can see that. Try to detach from all the emotion then. Just let it go, as much as you can. If it is nice out, maybe you can read outside or something? Just to get some air?

[Babygirl]

thanks jeff, i am just to flippen tired, so confused. UGH lol

[Virtually_Handsome]

((((((BG))))))

Just try to let go. Let your head have a rest.

It's ok, BG.

[davidswife]

bg,

It feels like you're slamming a door, because at that point you are slamming a door. You're slamming the door to disrespect, to cake-eating, to lie telling, gum chewing, gun toting, durango driving, out of wedlock child bearing TRASH!

Okay, got carried away. When you're ready to slam the door - go girl! Until then, know peace. You're tired -- so rest. You're confused -- so pray. Peel back the layers and remember who YOU are. You're not just his wife.

[S.T. _I Made It!]

hey, that was me. oops, I'm the culprit. Sometimes there is so much commotion around us that we cannot hear God, so we must be still.

The only reason why I am not so for the door changes is the fact that he is still calling everyday and has the desire to go to church together. If it wasn't for that, I probably would not be having questions.

My thoughts are to talk (if it were me I would write it) to H about his will to not live there, and because his choice right now is not to work on the M, you feel that it may be best to file for LS and that you would like for him to respect your home and to let you know or ask when he wants to come over. You would love to work on the M, but you know he's not ready for that, so if he changes his mind, then you would be happy to rethink things again.

I understand your concern for rocking the boat Baby. I would be thinking the same thing if I were in your position. and I know you've got some strong decisions to make, they are not easy, but we will support them either way.

[S.T. _I Made It!]

okay, I have another friend who is very knowledgeable in health and it's actually his job to help people, and he mentioned the following...

"I've never tested a patient with an auto-immune disease who wasn't Vitamin D deficient. Vit. D is very important for blood pressure maintenance. I would also suspect adrenal fatigue. The adrenals are also involved in blood pressure. I hope this helps!"

another suggested you read this book "Recapture Your Health"

and for you to get out of your surroundings (as they are probably contributing to the stress) and do anything, walk, sit on the grass, whatever. also getting on a whole foods diet is very recommended. and continuing to cut down more and more of toxic habits like smoking that cause free radicals which in turn mutate your cells.

hope those things help. even if you can take one thing at a time to change or improve, it will only help you even more.

we love you and we want you around forever!!!