Yes - that is Lucky's post that I was refering to. I didn't think the responces were to me personally but I wanted to thank B for posting and hope he keeps doing so and advising/helping. His posts make me think and damn if they don't seem pretty textbook right on - which is great.
No prob lucky ! It is I who thought was being blunt - I didn't take your as. I read yours as an admonishment. I read wrong also !
Just to clarify - by zone I was referring to emotional zone - not body location zone - just in case it read that way.
I need to get that NMMNG book. Somehow I think I am not to bad off this way but I do know I have no willpower when it comes to sex and at this time I seem to feel rejection quick and deep. I naturally retreat (and for a while) which is something I need to work on.
Really glad to hear that you seem to be achieving some harmony Mike !
Ohhhhhhhhh... Oh my gosh. I'm so sorry, Stillhope. You probably think I'm a total jerk. Shoot. I wish I hadn't made that mistake. I'm so sorry if I insulted you.
Just didn't want you thinking Mike was being a jerk or flippant - it was me !
I don't post a lot but I read here pretty regular and have been following you and all the others posting in this section. I'm rooting for you. Try to get some rest. Tell your H to take care of a couple nights in a row. Don't let him whine about he has to work and all. I worked and did it every single night for months - my then wife went kookoo and disapeared 5 days after my daughter was born and has never taken care of the kids since. Ugly story. NMMNG for you ! tell him to suck it up and deal with it for a couple days.
That does sound like an ugly story. I'm so sorry. Yuck. Having a child can stir up all kinds of psych stuff, all different for each woman. I'll find and read your situation AFTER I GET REST so that I don't misinterpret the entire thing. LOL!
My H is great on weekends and helps with the baby a lot. I have a lot of guilt about taking time away for myself, though, because I feel like I'm taking opportunity away from me and H to spend what little time we have together. Typical mommy guilt. I know it's a waste of time. And I don't want to go KOOKOO!!!
Thanks for rooting. We need all the good energy we can get!
Never apologize for hijacking LG, an active thread is a better thread.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
W was grumpy last night, had a long and rough day. I kept my PMA, helped her out with some things, and gave her some downtime.
This morning I got a note:
"Sorry I was grumpy last night, I was just exhausted. I have a lot of work to do this weekend, but I will still make some time for us =)"
This weekend will be all about giving her time to work, but I would like to do something a little romantic for her as well. Hmmm.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
