Yes - that is Lucky's post that I was refering to. I didn't think the responces were to me personally but I wanted to thank B for posting and hope he keeps doing so and advising/helping. His posts make me think and damn if they don't seem pretty textbook right on - which is great.
No prob lucky ! It is I who thought was being blunt - I didn't take your as. I read yours as an admonishment. I read wrong also !
Just to clarify - by zone I was referring to emotional zone - not body location zone - just in case it read that way.
I need to get that NMMNG book. Somehow I think I am not to bad off this way but I do know I have no willpower when it comes to sex and at this time I seem to feel rejection quick and deep. I naturally retreat (and for a while) which is something I need to work on.
Really glad to hear that you seem to be achieving some harmony Mike !